Don’t call me a cock-blocker

I don’t want to seem like I am bashing him, you know? I don’t want it to sound like I have anything against him or anything. After all, who am I to judge? Everybody has their weaknesses. Everyone has their dark side. Granted his is uniquely weaker and darker than most…

But he paid his debt to society and I think we should stop holding his being in prison against him. Moreover, there is a school of thought (and maybe they have a point) that argues that we are a bit unjust when treating drug dealers. They ask, how come we don’t punish the buyers, too? Isn’t it the buyers who tempt people like him to start selling drugs?

Okay, well, it IS true that the buyers in this case were little children, but the decision to sell coke outside a schoolyard was not born out of evil — it was born out of cowardice. There is a difference.

Besides, it wasn’t that bad. As the subsequent fraud conviction proved, he wasn’t even selling pure coke. He was mixing it with maize flour, so he didn’t do as much damage as if we had initially thought.

I’m not saying what he did was not bad, it was reprehensible, and I condemn the act as much as you do, but he really had very little choice. His circumstances forced him to it. There was hardly any other job he could find after the sexually-transmitted leprosy caused his fingers to drop off. 

It was a terrible sight to watch him try to get by after that happened. Especially when the scabies got onto his ass and he couldn’t scratch it without hands. The poor man drastically needed the money to get some sort of treatment.

And he wasn’t getting much from his job. His business was doing very poorly. Demand for a gigolo dries up when it is discovered that he has both leprosy AND scabies. Very few women are that desperate. In the end the only clients he could get were men, until the scabies destroyed the last fleck of commercial value his ass had. 

And then his family abandoned him at his time of need. His kids didn’t even want to be associated with him. All fourteen of them turned their backs on him. They all said the same thing: That they would not help him just because he abandoned them when they were born and kicked their mothers out. Literallly kicked them out. He assaulted them. 

But they say the tendency to wife-battering is congenital—that you inherit it from your father— so I don’t want to judge him just because he beat up on every girlfriend he ever had. Okay, some would say “beat up on” is a overly mild way of referring to abducting someone, locking her in the pit latrine all day long and only letting her out at night so he could whip her bloody, but these seem like the acts of a sick sick man. He needs help, not condemnation.

All I’m saying is he seems to have put that all behind him now. He looks like he has changed. He even bathes regularly these days—certainly doesn’t smell as much as he used to. There are much fewer flies around him. You cannot fail to notice that. So, if you ask me about my friend, who slipped you his number at a party last weekend, and seemed  nice, and you wonder whether you should call him, I guess I would say, I don’t really have anything to say against him.

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20 Comments

  1. Baz, lemme first make a cuppa tea then settle down and read the post. I’d run for socks…

    But I’ve just seent he word Gigolo…this must be interesting.

  2. Grim, yes, but I like the suspense makes you want to scroll to the bottom but you can’t because you’ll miss the nuggets.

    BHH, the drinks I promised?

  3. I’d kill him. Not that he deserves it or anything. Some people need to be taken out of their misery. Of course you could say I’m a criminal; a murderer. But really, who are you to judge? I’d only be trying to help. [Innocent smile]

    Baz, be there for BHH. Drinks on me.

    Cash on you.

  4. I think this thing finds me repugnant. It insists I stay anonymous. Well, I wont swallow. That’s me up there.

    Oxford Leraner’s:

    *Thing: Baz’s blog

  5. I think this thing finds me repugnant. It insists I stay anonymous. Well, I wont swallow. That’s me up there.

    Oxford Learner’s:

    *Thing: Baz’s blog

  6. i think once in a while every man has to do a man has to do. trash another guy so he can stay ahead. its not personal; i swear; there is an evolutional imperative to stay ahead of the other guy and in essence his sperm.

    thanks baz

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